Thursday, January 27, 2005

Collars

It is the Top’s prerogative to choose, and give the collar. It is to be left to the whim of the DOM.

Although it has occurred that a bottom finds, sees a collar they “really really” want….so they acquire it and present it to their Top in the appropriate way.

Appropriate =
Although there are basic rules in the S/m world, Top’s know what they want. Thus, it is a process the bottom must go through to “learn” their prospective Top.

The term I recently heard used is “Under Consideration”.

The person I heard it from was feeling indignant about how she was being treated by a certain DOM. It is like being engaged, it is the pretrial to what you are going to be to each other.

I have also done short-term contracts for six months. Many times, people will approach me about wanting to be a 24/7 slave. Problem is fantasy and reality are different. Book knowledge is definitely a step in the right direction, then virtual experience enhance the heat.

But, nothing replaces the actual real time scene.

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